Data Node upgrade page wording changes

[gally47]

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Description

Adds concise guidance for the OpenSearch upgrade process and resolving incompatible indices. Hides the incompatible-indices section once all incompatible indices have been resolved.

Motivation and Context

fixes https://github.com/Graylog2/graylog-plugin-enterprise/issues/15326

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Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Refactoring (non-breaking change)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have requested a documentation update.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.